John 16:21 (ASV) A woman when she is in travail hath sorrow, because her hour is come: but when she is delivered of the child, she remembered no more the anguish, for the joy that a man is born into the world.
Jesus should always be the starting point, the foundation of every marriage. A husband is the head of the household. The wife is that backbone. The Holy Spirit said to me, “husband pulls greatness out of their wife. The wife pushes her husband to greatness. As a man plants the seed of a child, it’s the same as he plants a seed of greatness into his wife and allows his prayers to grow within her. As a woman pushes her baby out, it is the same as she pushes her husband to greatness. The labor pains you feel in your marriage doesn’t mean your marriage is over. The delay you are feeling in giving birth and receiving your husband or wife doesn’t mean God has forgotten about you.
No one can accomplish their full potential without the other support. If your husband is weak, it is because you need to pray more. If your wife is fragile, it is because you have to pray more. Truly I tell you, pray more so you can receive more grace within your marriage. The husband provides meaning he leads, gives wisdom, and guides his family because of the beauty (grace) that is upon him. If a woman is a backbone and she is distracted or lusting after another man while her husband is weak. The enemy has access to the wife and husband because they are both in a covenant. You are a reflection of God love towards each other.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (NIV) 9 Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor: 10 If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.
This message isn’t for someone who’s just dating but husband and wife. As a wife, you don’t surpass your husband, but you submit to him. The Holy Spirit said to me a few months ago, “you had to first submit (offer) yourself to me (God) for me(God) to release your husband. Basically saying you have to first love me in order for me to release your husband. You have to first love and know who you are before you receive your husband. You won’t know how to love and submit to your husband until you love and submit to God’s will. Without your identity, you will enter into marriage, trying to find yourself. With your personality, you can walk into marriage being arrogant. Be cautious of your flesh over powering God’s desires for your marriage. Submit to each other and love each other, knowing God is the foundation.
Ephesians 5:21-6:4 (KJV) 21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. 22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Women your husband is not your father, so don’t look for him to be that father, you never had. Men your wife is not your mother, so don’t look for her to complete that place of abandonment. That burden is for no one but God. Your extended family doesn’t come before your husband or your wife.
Prayer-Partnership and submission to one another
Father, we ( I ) take this time out to honor you and all your goodness and mercy that has followed me from the beginning up until now. I thank you for the covenant you have made with us your people. Although we have fallen short and we still do. You Abba have not taken your hand of love away from us. As we (I) come before you concerning partnership and marriage. I Decree and declare that the same covenant you have built with your people through the bloodshed of your son Jesus Christ will be the same covenant of love between husband and wife. For you, Abba honor marriage(covenant) and set it on high. I pray that the same level that you hold marriage to that he and she will also hold it to that much of a standard. That they will love, respect, honor, and submit one to another as your word has written. For it is written that husbands must love their wives as you love the Church. So right now in the name of Jesus, I pray that My husband to be or to come will have the anointing of love to carry out this command. To love me as the weaker vessel, to be gentle towards me, and allow me to fulfill the role as the Proverbs 31 women.
As a wife, it is written to respect your husband and so as it is written father I pray that ever women respect there husband remembering that he is the head and if the head is out of order the whole body is out of alignment. Father as two become one and they submit unto you anoint them also to submit one to another in unity. For you said how can two walks together unless they agree. I call on the spirit of unity to pour upon every husband/to be and every wife/to be causing their spirits to walk in alignment as one. Build up the character of each man and woman and kill the ego so they may be able to hear each other out, be slow to anger, and be quick to hear. Cause their desires for marriage to align up to your order of marriage. In Jesus name, I pray Amen.
The blog is written by Prophetess Elizabeth. Founder of Heart Of God International Ministries and
Prayer was written by Prophetess Myesha, Founder of SheSpeaksGemz