Understanding your role as husban​d and wife through the Love Of Christ…

June 13, 2019 eromans561 0 Comments

Genesis 12:1 Then the LORD said to Abram, “Leave your country, your kindred, and your father’s household, and go to the land I will show you. 

 There are people that have married because of certain circumstances one is the fear of being alone. Marry someone you love, and if you are married and have grown out of love search your heart to see what has changed. God is teaching you to love the way he loves. Comparing your relationship to other people’s marriage’s can become a big problem. If you keep doing that you will never be able to push or pull out greatness out of your marriage. Emotional, unfaithfulness and physical abuse isn’t a marriage pleasing to God. That means you never included God in your decision, and if you did at first, you have forgotten God and the gift he has given you.

The Holy Spirit said to me one morning I have the secret to marriage. You must have grace for marriage. You must be meek in marriage. When your husband speaks, listen. A woman that fears God doesn’t disrespect her husband but pushes him to his full potential with her love, prayers, and submission.  A woman that fears God doesn’t discuss her husband weakness with her coworkers when she is insecure. If your friends aren’t praying for your marriage, maybe you need to find new friends? A man that loves God pulls out greatness out of his wife and don’t throw her failures in her face but plants seeds of greatness. Two broken people can’t lead one another and their household. Your first ministry is your household, not your neighbors or your coworkers. 

John 21:18 (ESV) Truly, truly, I say to you, when you were young, you used to dress yourself and walk wherever you wanted, but when you are old, you will stretch out your hands, and another will dress you and carry you where you do not want to go.”

 There were great women in the bible that addresses there husband as Lord. Submission means you have reverence to your spouse as you have reverence towards God. If you don’t respect your spouse, you do not understand God’s word. He will not hear your prayer if you affiliate yourself with an unfaithful spouse and don’t bring correction you’re as guilty as them. Jesus wasn’t concern about people who like him because he knew if they love God, they would love him. Insecurities and secrets can destroy any marriage.

When we don’t allow God to choose our spouse, we will struggle in marriage until we receive Gods grace for marriage. When we don’t submit to our spouse, then we will fight in purpose. Marriage is a gift from God, and singleness is a gift from God. Know what season you are presently in.

Judges 16:18 When Delilah saw that he had told her everything, she sent word to the rulers of the Philistines, “Come back once more; he has told me everything.” So the rulers of the Philistines returned with the silver in their hands. 19 After putting him to sleep on her lap, she called for someone to shave off the seven braids of his hair, and so began to subdue him. And his strength left him.

Some of you are getting ready to enter into marriage, or your spouse is getting ready to locate you. You will find different routes. The easy route and the hard route. The bible says Samson was instructed from birth not to do three things. Which was; The Angel of the Lord instructing Manoah’s wife to abstain from all alcoholic drinks, and her promised child was not to shave or put a razor to his head. Samson’s hair was his source of strength. The Philistines wanted to find Samson weakness. We all hear preachings on Samson’s hair, but I thought within myself Samson weakness was his heart. He loved and seen the greatness in his first wife and later his concubine Delilah. The Philistines understood that base off Samson reaction by his first wife to tell her the riddle. This will help Delilah with his downfall because of his disobedience towards God. Samson weakness was his constant rebellion towards God, but God uses each time he was in pain and disappointment to push him into his destiny. The Philistines removed Samson two eyes as Delilah servant cut his hair. They didn’t realize by cutting Samson hair. Samson now had begun to rely on God’s strength not his own. Samson had begun to use God for his eyes. Which gave Samson more sensitivity to the voice of God,  and he began to listen.

When we start to listen to God and seek him in every decision we make we’re then able to  begin walking in purpose. Even with the rejection and betrayal God is lifting you up in a way that your enemies won’t be able to recognize you. You aren’t by yourself. God is in the storm with you and he loves you even through the spiritual warfare. 

You shall overcome the mental warfare you are experiencing in Jesus name!

Prayer: Against Generational Curses and Marriages

Abba Father,

Thank you for trusting me to be a loving spouse to Your child. I stood before You, and vowed to honor Your child, and I shall do so through first honoring You. I come into Your presence with praise and thanksgiving for Your loving-commitment. Father, show me how to be just as committed as You are. My desire is to be the spouse that You have ordained me to be according to Your commandments, and Ephesians chapter 5. Father, allow me to treasure Your Word in my heart so that I may not sin against You. If there is anything within me that will cause me to fall away from my marriage covenant or to dishonor my spouse, I ask that it is revealed to me through The Holy Spirit, and that it is burned away by the fire of The Holy Spirit. Purify my heart and mind for marriage. Drive out from among me the spirits of covenant breaking, infidelity, lying, deception, lust, perversion, anger, mischief, revenge, cantankerousness, blasphemy, ungratefulness, faithlessness, greed, emptiness, self-pity, pettiness, and Jezebel tendencies. Father, I come out of agreement with marriage covenant breaking within my lineage even to the 4th generation.

I break any power given to any deities from my forefathers, and decree that I have been set free from spiritual bondage that delays my marriage from being successful, and fulfilling. I break every curse, lie, or wile from the enemy to cause my marriage to end. I come out of agreement with any and all marriage covenants that I knowingly or unknowingly consented to in my past. I ask that You bless and restore my marriage daily. I ask that You be the keeper of the way that I address, and speak to my spouse; may my words bring forth life and not death. I ask that You Father, be the keeper of my emotions; may I always address my feelings and concerns in a healthy manner to my spouse. I ask that You be the keeper of my mind and heart Yahweh; may I never hold jealousy, scrutiny, or hatred toward my spouse in my heart. I ask that You be the center of our marriage, and thank you for being a giver of unity.

Thank you Lord, for blessing our union. Thank you Holy Spirit for guiding us on our marriage path. Thank you for reminding us that forgiveness is important. Thank you for giving us the spirit of self-control to admit when we are wrong. Thank you for giving us peace and joy in our marriage through your righteousness. Thank you for the spirit of love being the anchor of our relationship; our love first for You, and second for one another. I give you honor, praise, and thanksgiving as I pray this prayer in Yeshua; our salvation’s name. Amen. Amen, and Amen.

Author: Prophetess Elizabeth, Founder of Heart Of God International Ministries and womenofgrace.today.

Prayer was written by: Prophetess Joy, Founder of Behind the Veil Ministries.

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